Ok, a very lovely friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend recently. She is going through a period of what the love gurus call - painful recovery. I know it hurts, i know you no longer recognize your silly self, but these are my golden rules for you.
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Rule 1: DO NOT CALL HIM.
I know you miss him very much . I know you want to know if he is doing fine. I know you yearn to hear him telling you how much he has been missing you too and how he can and will never be able to love another girl as much as he has loved you. But let me answer that for you. If you pick up the phone and dial his number, most probably he will not sound as emotional disturbed as you. He is likely to be having any usual lunch with his friend while you on the other line feel daggers piercing through your heart. You might even end up crying painfully while he thinks that you are a weakling who can't let go and move on with life. You hang up the phone and you are back to square one. Now, be ready to start pouring for a brand new week again.

Rule 2: CALL ME INSTEAD.

Rule 3: DO NOT FACEBOOK , MSN, PHYSICAL STALK HIM.
Stop looking at his msn nick. Stop looking at his facebook status. The fact that he changed his msn nick to something relatively sensual does not mean that he still loves you. Love is not displayed by randomly changing msn nicks. If he really wants you back in his life, ego will not hinder him from flying to your doorstep to get you back, with whatever means. If there's nothing at your doorstep, then move on and clean your tears cuz this is just another episode of life that you will have to learn to pull through.

Rule 4: DO NOT FIND EXCUSES FOR HIM.
No, he is not busy trying to earn his living. No, he is not going through a hard time that he vanishes from earth. Stop worrying about how he is recovering when you can't even get a grip of yourself anymore. Take care of yourself, he is an adult, he will not die if he is upset. If he still wants to hold on to the relationship, he would have done something constructive days ago.

Rule 5: DO NOT EXPECT TO BE REMEMBERED BY HIM.
Yes, i totally understand. He once treated you like a princess and held you endearly in his palms. This is no longer the case now. You must accept the truth that this treatment is not in application anymore. Instead, this treatment might be extended to another girl in the near future. Do not expect the guy to remember you for the rest of his life, because this is not going to happen. No matter how much he loved you when you were together, that is all in the past. Eventually, he will love his new someone.

Rule 6: BUY NEW CLOTHES.
Stop saying there's no occassion to wear pretty clothes. EVERY DAY IS AN OCCASSION! The next time i see you, make sure you are in a hot sexy dress, ready to hit the club anytime.

Rule 7: LOVE YOURSELF NOW.
Give youself some air to breathe. Remind yourself that you are wonderful, gorgeous, very lovely, intelligent, deserving, wholesome, hero, princess, sexy, very desirable, independent and very bright. You lost your focus in life that you forgot you are acutally all these.

Rule 8: REMEMBER. WE ALL LOVE YOU.
If you want to go fishing, call us. If you want to go singing, call us. If you want to go for a crying marathon, call us. If you want to go to Africa, call us. If you want to jump down a building, you must call us. There are so many people in your life who loves you and wants to see the happy you again. So, don't disappoint us. YOU.

YOU WILL BE FINE :)

HELEN. she's a bitch. but a KIND one.


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